Wednesday, May 10, 2017
1 - Your husband better always be your boyfriend
2 - It's better to be single than wish you were
3 - If you cheat at cards, your Grandad will NEVER play a game with you again
4 - It's bad luck to have 2 people change the sheets
5 - Looks fade & money doesn't always last, find someone that makes you laugh
6 - Homemade lemon bars are great, but Betty Crocker is easier
7 - If your problems can be fixed with money, then they're not that bad
8 - There are no exes in this family and there are no steps
9 - No is a complete sentence
10 - When in doubt, stay out of it
11 - Take your time to find the perfect cove
Today marks one year since my tiny Grandmother shuffled off this mortal coil. She was a pretty rad lady, all 4'10" of her. She and my Grandad were relationship goals. They were married for 47 years, raised 4 kids, umpteen grandkids and a few great grandkids. She lived through the Depression, an alcoholic husband, and raised my Dad & My Auntie on her own until my Grandad came along. Their story is one that I read about in my books. She was small in stature and huge in spirit. If you've ever seen That 70s Show, Red & Kitty Foreman are my grandparents.
My Gram was working at the phone company and so was my Grandad, Jack. He asked her out a lot and she said no a lot. She said "I have two small kids at home and I need to be home with them" Sick of being rejected, my Grandad said o her "If I bring the meat will you cook it?" and that was that. Fast forward 6 months, she comes home from work and he's sitting on the couch with a big ol dress box. "Jack", she says "what's in the box?" and he looks at her and says "it's all our bills, and I'm trying to figure out with all these bills, and all these kids how we can afford to get married." And that... was that. They drove to Vegas on 5 bucks and got married. They had a really beautiful life, and they set a foundation for the rest of us, an example of what relationships are supposed to look like.
I've been blessed with a bevy of stellar women that shaped and molded me into the woman I am today, I'm eternally grateful for the strong, take no shit ladies that taught me how to live, and were always there to carry me through my messes. So, today, I honor my Gram with my words, I celebrate her unique personality and I value the lessons that she taught me.
This picture is me in the 7th grade, astride my mare, Foxy.